+19 How Early Do You Send Save The Date Wedding References. Web as a rule of thumb, send them 9 months to 12 months for a destination wedding. Start spreading the news six.

Web i recommend my couples to send out save the dates six to eight months before the wedding date, says daniels. Web when to send save the dates realistically you can do this as soon as you've booked your venue. If it’s a destination, i would suggest 12.